Agreement without accounts
Two companies announce a partnership, exchange decks, and hold a kickoff. Nobody names a customer. Six months later both sides conclude the other was not committed.
Asymmetric upside
If the partner earns little from the outcome, they will step back the moment their own quarter tightens. This is not disloyalty; it is the same prioritisation any sales team makes. The fix is commercial, not motivational.
Contradicting each other in front of the customer
Buyers read inconsistency between two suppliers as delivery risk. Rules of engagement exist mainly to prevent this, and they need agreeing before the first joint meeting rather than after the first awkward one.
Claiming credit from an unfair comparison
Reporting co-sell win rates against the company average almost always overstates the motion, because co-sell attention is allocated to accounts that were already more likely to close.
Both sides assuming the other is following up
The most mundane failure and the most common. Without a shared view of next steps and owners, joint deals go quiet for weeks while each side waits.