Two definitions, and why both are correct
Detractor is one of those terms where two established meanings coexist, and where a meeting containing both a customer experience lead and a sales manager can run for twenty minutes with everyone agreeing about different things.
Definition one, customer experience. A detractor is a survey respondent who rates their likelihood to recommend at nought to six on the standard eleven-point Net Promoter Score scale.
Definition two, sales. A detractor is a member of the buying committee who opposes the purchase and may work against it.
They share a direction of sentiment and nothing else. One is a scoring band with a defined formula; the other is a role in a live opportunity. The practical rule is to qualify the word every time: NPS detractor, or deal detractor.
