Structure
Take one scenario the buyer has described. Restate it in their words and check that you have it right. Show the shortest path from their current situation to their desired outcome, using their vocabulary and data that resembles theirs rather than a polished sample set. Stop, and ask whether that solved the problem they meant. Only then move to the next scenario.
A worked exchange
Engineer: You said the difficulty is that orders arrive on WhatsApp and nobody at head office knows which have been quoted. So I am going to show you exactly that, and nothing else. Here is a message arriving from a dealer. Here it is attached to that dealer's account. Here is your executive turning it into a draft order with the dealer's price list already applied. Is that the gap you were describing?
Buyer: Close. The bit we struggle with is when the dealer changes the quantity two days later.
Engineer: Then let me show that instead, because it is the more interesting case. And I should say now, the revised quantity does not automatically update anything already sent to your accounting system. That has to be handled deliberately. Do you want to see how other distributors deal with that?
Why the admission matters
The limitation stated voluntarily is the most productive sentence in the exchange. It tells the buyer that the confirmations are real, and it moves the conversation on to how the constraint is handled rather than whether it exists. Buyers discover constraints eventually. The only question is whether they discover them from you before signature or from their own team afterwards.